Honestly since putting into practice some of the things I’ve been talking about a lot has happened. I’ve met some awesome new people, and starting to develop awesome new friendships. Life is so much better when you just believe in yourself and stop focusing too much on what other people think. Admittedly I do have a long way to go and a lot to work on still, but so far it’s been a fun and interesting journey.
The last blog post I spoke in there about loving your fellow humans. This includes complimenting them. We tend to only focus on the negative parts of people. I do this sometimes. Rather find the positive in people and compliment them on it. It’s much harder to resist somebody who see’s the best you. The more positive you are about yourself the easier it is to find the positive in others. And there is so much to find. Whether it’s just that you enjoy their company, how you admire their loyalty, you envy their independent nature, or just that they have a beautiful smile. So compliment people often. It’ll make both you and them feel better. Also remember to receive compliments well. Say thank you. Rejecting compliments is not sexy!
Something that has come up in my personal life recently is the question of age. What if he is quite a bit older than you or maybe even a year or more younger than you. Sex appeal has no age limit neither does it have a set starting age. [Though if you think 7 year old’s are hot, there is a word for that, pedophilia. Seek help!]
The biggest part of sex appeal, I’m sure I’ve stressed this enough, is believing in yourself. When you self confident it just comes naturally. Love others for who they are. Find your purpose in life and strive towards it. Sex appeal is part of your personal development. Don’t try to hard to have sex appeal. You’ll end up looking like you trying too hard. If you learn to love yourself and other’s it will come naturally.